One might think that nothing is more innocent and free than extending the invitation to a birthday party. Nothing is farther than the truth.
In the planning of children's birthday parties, the invitation is provided as a minefield filled with moral stumbling blocks and traps. There are three pointers to help you manipulate the maze.
Pointer #1: Invitation Stick
After rubbing into friendship, how attractive it is for the child to draw a birthday party invitation. "You have never been invited to my birthday party!" is a common campus chorus. However, it is important for your child to know that invitations [such as gifts] cannot be recycled. It is best to wait four weeks before the date of the party before making an invitation, verbally or in writing.
This is a rare child, the upcoming birthday. I have heard the 9-year-old Sam sister say, "So, Sam, you will go see all your friends this afternoon."
He looked up. "Why?"
"Today is your birthday party!" She sacrificed and was angry.
"Oh," he said with a shrug. "Correct."
Other young people began to seriously plan for the next birthday party, when the ribbon was removed from the current celebration. There are children of various tendencies between the two. This is your signal: Once your child starts to speak in the language for the next birthday party, he says, "Remember, postpone inviting anyone [in the first four weeks of the party or holiday reference point], start/end school, etc. You never know who you will be friends in the future, because once you send out an invitation, you will stick to it.
Pointer #2: 100% of guests are invited
Layered guests are another common dynamic. Teenagers will be free to announce who is the "next" of their birthday party. However, the waiting list is also clearly showing their secondary, less rankings to the waiting children. Better let your child understand that if guests are invited, they are invited to 100%.
Friends who are not invited to the party may ask your child: "How can I not invite you to your birthday party?" I even said, "You are invited to participate. mine "Your child can answer:" I only allow guests. Then arrange playdate.
In the suburbs, children invite a large number of guests to an afternoon gathering, and it is not uncommon to invite a smaller number of "most intimate" friends to stay in a party or overnight party. If your child makes such an arrangement, please don't believe that guests who are not invited to stay will not find a more suitable party. The word is spread faster than the birthday gift is torn faster. Those who are not invited will immediately and frustratedly realize that their bodies are weakened. More than once, I picked up my daughter from the birthday party and found that her tears were tears, and near me, other parents just comforted their children and left them, knowing real The party has just begun.
Make sure your child understands that when inviting guests, invite them to 100%.
Pointer #3: Discrete Distribution Invitation
Completion and postal parasitic party invitations are an unpopular chores. No wonder parents want to simplify the process by personally sending out birthday party invitations at the school.
When my little daughter Hannah was in kindergarten, I noticed that my parents would put a birthday party invitation into the kids' square. Although this method does not present a problem when all children in a class are invited to a party, when some young people are invited and others are not invited - especially when there are clearly colored envelopes in the invitation - This is very obvious. No invitation without envelope its File holder. In the pre-school stage, it is better for parents to invite them directly to other parents or caregivers. Or, if you can't do it because of the work schedule, grab your teeth and mail them. Even better, if this is a pleasant alternative, please email the invitation.
The tendency to issue invitations in public places is tracked through achievements. After the middle school game, I witnessed a birthday party invitation to a relaxed crowd around her before adolescence. Glanced at it, I noticed that other young people also saw excitement and were not so happy.
Let these three points guide you to solve the moral trap in the world of birthday party invitations. Perhaps the type of invitation for children's birthday parties represents a microcosm of American ethical practice, and may not be excessive. Because the daily interaction of family dynamics is not the cornerstone of our lives?
So, use vim, energy and knowledge to deal with those birthday parties. Give your child another under your guidance - a more liar gift.
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