It is said that the distance makes the heart better. In a world where trust is rapidly disappearing and replaced by insecurity, long-distance relationships are inevitably failing from the start. At this age and time, most of us focus on solving a better life by simply working and working, because the nature of stability and intimacy slowly looks like faded light on the horizon. No one wants to marry a more relaxed person, no one wants to get married more relaxed, and in fact people are trying to earn extra money. For these reasons, people look for work anywhere, and it seems that most of the opportunities around us are not found.
I have a friend who fortunately found a job in another country. Everything went well, but one detail didn't seem to match his current relationship - he had a girlfriend who was pregnant for seven weeks. The main problem is that his lucky deal does not have a second-party slot. So he sat down with his girlfriend to discuss the issue in detail. They are determined to find the way to let her fly there. In this way, this guy gave a dead line for a year.
It has been three years now and I still see the girls around. When we spoke last time, she told me that she had not heard of him in two and a half years. However, what is striking is that the first, and actually the only thing, is to think here that "he found another person and moved on." Still, we know that this guy may have died or is still struggling to achieve the program goals. In any case, we have not completely ruled out that he has an affair.
In a completely honest situation, when a loved one gets along with him/herself for a while, the sense of insecurity slowly begins to disappoint us. So the subject of distance. We can try to hide it, and we can't deny the fact that we are tied to insecurity. In a different situation, have you ever wondered why the embarrassed girlfriend called almost ten times overnight to make sure you are fine? '? It all comes down to insecurity. There is a problem in society where most people don't know at first. A problem has been eliminated from life, without any facts, but my opinion - as some people have said, opinions are not facts '
However, when we regard the whole thing as a problem, we must admit the fact that some of us believe in the trust between them, even if we don't have a glimpse of another person for a long time. When it comes to relationship issues, there are two things to do: first, mutual trust, and second, how much you communicate with the most important one.
When it comes to distances and relationships, if the relationship is to go far, the two need a balance of trust. But as far as I am concerned, distance does not make the mind better, but it makes it restless.
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