Single, solo, no husband, no children... you understand. Ok, that is me. Maybe you are because you are reading this article. Maybe it is not you at all. No matter who you are, you can still benefit.
I have never been eager to get married or have children. I am 28 years old - almost 29 years old, still single. Some people may think this is a bad thing, but I only pay attention to me. Shouldn't this be our top priority?
I used to love. And I found that it will consume your life. Your life is basically around that person. This is an exciting feeling, but then you will find yourself losing yourself. You start to depend on that person and rely on them to make you happy. This will only disappoint you.
Many people settle because they think they need it, or their parents want them to do it. We are asked to think like this. But I think people think that interpersonal relationship is the whole and ultimate goal of personal happiness, which makes people feel very sad. No. At the very least, I think so.
My parents divorced when I was young. But they also got married before the age of 21. Are they getting married too early? - Or are they just not exercising? I am not sure about this answer, but I know that in this era, at my age, I am socially acceptable, thank God.
Many people emphasize finding people to share their lives because they worry that they will run out of time. They search for and search for people who don't realize they are looking for someone: a] fill the gaps they think they can't fill, or b] because their circadian clock is ticking, "children - kids!" If these are your reasons, then you will be prepared for the wrong person and will probably be disappointed.
I believe that if you take the time to understand yourself, find out what motivates you, and see your own love is enough, you will be satisfied with loneliness, you will not mind waiting for the person who praises your life. Learning this way allows you to find a higher quality person. In other words, you will get longer, stronger lie love.
I believe that everyone has one person. Embrace every moment of your single life. Do not worry.
Diana
Check out one of my favorite self-help books, "Four Agreements: A Guide to Individual Freedom"
Orignal From: Single is underestimated
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