Are you waiting for Boaz? If you don't know who Boaz is, he is a role in Ruth in the Bible. Boaz is a wealthy landowner. He noticed a foreigner named Ruth who was interested in her and immediately began to protect her. Because of her kindness and godly qualities, he was favored by her. He taught his servant not to put her hand on her, and value her like a queen. When he first saw her, he knew she was his woman. Today, many Christian women compare their qualities to those that their husbands want. A man who takes care of, protects and treats them like a queen.
Whether you haven't seen him or you think you have it, but you are still technically single, you may often find yourself wondering "Where is he?!" Egypt "When will he want me to marry him?" "Since our preparedness, we blame him for all responsibility."
I want to make a suggestion that sometimes this person is God's choice for us. When the Queen is really ready, the chosen king will come. Just because we are tired of single life, we feel that we are ready to settle down, we love or meet our dreams. This does not mean that we are ready to match God for God's intention to perform as a goal. The choice of Boaz. We need to stay open and ready to accept this man, feeling healthy, so that we can provide something. When waiting for the future husband to arrive, you need to consider the following points:
#1 Don't blame you for feeling that you are ready to meet your marriage needs! Everything is for a reason, maybe the reason you are waiting is because you are not as prepared as you think.
#2深挖. Look at yourself and ask if there is anything you can try to make yourself the best. Are there problems that bother you or hinder your childhood? Is there a secret that you have never discussed that will have a negative impact on your image today? Have you accepted some unwelcome visits from your parents, and you wish you didn't? Are you still complaining or shame about past relationships? It's time to reflect and face any devil or excess baggage you carry. Try consulting or treating and praying to help you talk about it. This is not easy, but God is observing, sometimes he will not allow you to move forward, because he needs you to throw something away from your past. These things may prevent him from needing the role you pair with your husband and your purpose. Your stagnation at sea may not be Boaz's fault at all. Your future husband needs an assistant instead of a patient.
#3 Have you ever heard the lyrics of Erykah Badu's song "Bag Lady"? Stop now with YouTube. It is deep and the information is clear. The bag of the woman depicted in the song is not emotional, but emotional. She said: "Package you a woman, you miss your bus, you can't hurry, because you have too many things", "One day, he will say that you squeeze my space." The lyrics escape the fact that carrying too much luggage can delay your life and slow down the speed at which you build a successful relationship. It can hinder the current relationship and make your partner skeptical that he has enough space and your emotional baggage. Take time to wait, reflect and challenge yourself, learn more about you, and face difficult things before you let a man get married.
#4 It doesn't have to be that deep. If you check your findings yourself and say that you have no emotional challenges, but Boaz is still not here, then use time to check several bucket list items. Take yourself out of your comfort zone and surprise yourself with things you think you can never do. Experience new things and discover new things.
#5 Last but not the least important volunteer! Many times, when you remove your attention from something you don't have and use it to help others, God will begin to answer your needs [this is how I meet my husband].
My point is that if you take your attention away from him and put it on yourself, you can benefit from it. One of the three things will happen.
#1 You will distract yourself from waiting time, then you know that your Boaz has arrived.
#2 You know more about yourself; your level of confidence will pass through the roof, raising your chances of being noticed by the people you dream.
#3 After making all these improvements to yourself, you may realize that the person you are waiting for is not what you think of Boaz and you deserve better. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this!
Orignal From: Single and waiting
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